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Me, and my family that fuels me, and encourages me to work hard everyday For many women entrepreneurs, the desire to build a thriving business often intersects with the equally powerful desire to nurture family and personal passions. But juggling all three without losing yourself? That can feel overwhelming. I’ve walked this path — starting as a single mom launching a wedding planning business while raising two young kids. Later, blending family life with my growing business, I learned some hard lessons about balance, boundaries, and self-care. Why Balance Matters Because burnout is real. And no wedding business (or any business) is worth losing yourself over. You didn’t start this journey, quitting your 9-5, just to be exhausted 24/7. You started because you love what you do and wanted a life with more freedom , purpose , and joy . Balance helps you protect all of that. Strategies That Helped Me Thrive These aren’t just tips — they’re tools I’ve used in the real world, on days that felt too full, too fast, or too fragile. I hope they meet you where you are. 1. Define Your Priorities Know what matters most to you. Not what Instagram says, not what other planners are doing. What lights you up in your family, your business, and your own heart? Let that be your compass. 💡 Try This: Try checking in weekly what needs your full attention right now, and what can wait. 2. Set Clear Boundaries Boundaries aren’t walls, they’re bridges to a healthier life. Blocking off time for rest and family has made me a better planner and a better mom. For me, Sundays are sacred family time — no exceptions, no emails, no work allowed. 💡 Try This: Use auto-responders, calendar blocks, and “do not disturb” hours to reinforce your time. 3. Communicate Openly You don’t have to do this alone, and you don’t have to pretend everything’s fine when it’s not. Be honest with your clients, your kids, your spouse, and yourself. Clear expectations build mutual respect. 💡 Try This: Share your weekly schedule with your family so they feel included and supported. 4. Embrace Flexibility Some days will go sideways. The babysitter cancels, the Wi-Fi crashes, the timeline shifts. That doesn’t mean you’ve failed. It means you’re human. Flexibility is your superpower, not your weakness. 💡 Try This: Plan your week with margins, not minute-by-minute perfection. 5. Take Care of You You are not a machine. You’re a visionary, a caretaker, a creator. And that means you need rest, fun, movement, nourishment, and joy. When you care for yourself, you’re not being selfish, you’re being sustainable. 💡 Try This: Start small. A 10-minute walk, a cup of coffee in silence, or journaling before bed counts. Encouragement for You Balancing family, passion, and business is a lifelong dance, not a finish line. Some weeks will feel smooth and fulfilling. Others will feel like survival mode. That’s okay. What matters is that you keep showing up , with love and honesty and grace. You’re building more than a business — you’re creating a life that reflects your values and your dreams. Final Thought You don’t have to lose yourself to succeed. By honoring all parts of your life and setting healthy limits, you can thrive as a business owner, family member, and woman. With heart and hope, Brandi Founder + Lead Planner, Next Chapter Weddings 📍 Houston, TX — Empowering women to build balanced, joyful lives Connect with me →   @next_chapter_weddings

Kaysea & Tommy's Sandlewood Manor Wedding, TX | Emily Michelle Photography Starting Your Wedding Venue Search Let’s be honest, finding the  wedding venue can feel like a big deal (because it is!). It sets the tone for your entire day and is often one of the first major decisions you’ll make in the planning process. At Next Chapter Weddings, we’ve walked alongside so many couples here in Houston as they searched for a space that truly feels like them . Whether you're dreaming of a romantic garden ceremony, a sleek downtown soirée, or something in between, we’re here to help you navigate the options with confidence and clarity. Below, we’re sharing our top tips to help you choose a venue that fits your guest list, style, and vision 1. Start With Your Guest List Size Before you fall in love with a venue’s chandeliers or sunset views, take a step back and look at your guest list. Having a general idea of how many people you’re inviting will help narrow down your options right away. A space that feels cozy for 80 wedding guests might feel overcrowded with 150, or too empty for 30. Kaysea & Tommy's Sandlewood Manor Wedding, TX | Final Guest Count 150 Think about the kind of experience you want to create—an intimate dinner under twinkle lights? A lively party with a packed dance floor? Your guest count is key to making sure the wedding venue you choose fits the vibe, flows comfortably, and keeps everyone happy from ceremony to send-off. 2. Think About Your Wedding Style Close your eyes and picture your day. Are you exchanging vows beneath towering oak trees, celebrating in a sleek downtown loft, or dancing the night away inside a warm, wood-beamed barn? Your wedding venue should reflect the overall style and atmosphere you’re dreaming of. Whether your vision leans rustic, modern, romantic, or a little bit of everything, the space you choose will set the tone. Here in Houston, we’ve loved working with venues like Bella Moon Barn, an ideal pick for couples who want that mix of countryside charm and refined elegance. When your wedding venue complements your style, every detail from florals to your dress feels more cohesive. It becomes more than just a backdrop. It becomes part of your love story. Pick a wedding venue that best fits your love story! 3. Consider the Logistics While it’s easy to get swept up in the look and feel of a wedding venue, everything that happens behind-the-scenes matter just as much. Think about parking availability, accessibility for elderly guests, and whether the location offers nearby accommodations for out-of-town friends and family. Another important factor to consider is what the venue provides as part of the package. Some venues offer everything you need, from in-house catering and rentals to staff services, making it easier for you to coordinate. On the other hand, some venues are more of a blank canvas, giving you the freedom to bring in your own vendors for catering, decor, and entertainment. Both options have their pros and cons. It all depends on how involved you want to be in the details of your wedding planning. Taking time to think through the logistics early on can save you stress later and help your wedding day flow more smoothly. Smooth wedding start with smart planning 4. Location is Everything The location and setting of your wedding venue isn’t just about the beautiful scenery. It affects everything from your guests' travel plans to their overall experience. If you're staying local in Houston, consider how easy it is for guests to get there, where they’ll park, and whether nearby accommodations are available. On the flip side, if you’re leaning toward a destination wedding or a more tucked-away venue, think about what makes that location worth the trip. Whether it’s a breathtaking view, a meaningful family property, or a venue with rich history, the right location adds something unforgettable to your celebration. 5. Don’t Forget Your Budget It’s easy to fall head over heels for a wedding venue, but before you sign on the dotted line, make sure it fits comfortably within your budget. Keep in mind that the venue cost is just one part of the equation—decorations, rentals, catering, and even transportation for guests can all add up quickly. To avoid any surprises, get clear on what's included in the venue’s pricing and factor in the extra expenses from the start. A venue that feels perfect but stretches your finances could lead to stress down the road. Stick to your budget, and you’ll have more room to focus on the things that matter most to you. It's time to find your Perfect Wedding Venue! Take the Next Step Toward Your Perfect Wedding Venue Choosing the perfect wedding venue is one of the most important steps in your wedding planning journey. From considering your guest list size and wedding style to accounting for logistics, location, and your budget, each detail plays a role in finding the ideal setting for your big day. The right one  not only reflects your personal style but ensures your guests have an unforgettable experience. Ready to find your dream wedding venue? Contact Next Chapter Weddings in Houston, TX, today to start your venue search, or follow us on Instagram at @next_chapter_weddings for more inspiration, helpful planning tips, and a closer look at what we do!

Their love story continues... The "Next Chapter" to a Beautiful Love Story Welcome back, dear readers, to the enchanting world of Jasmine and TK's love story! Just two days after their traditional Nigerian wedding, this joyous couple celebrated Part Two of their love story with an unforgettable American wedding on April 13, 2024, at the picturesque Addison Woods in Houston. This time, it was all about blending their cultural heritage with modern elegance, and oh, what a celebration it was! If you haven’t had a chance to catch up on their vibrant Nigerian wedding, you can read all about it here .   Trust us—you won’t want to miss the stunning traditions that kicked off their wedding journey. Addison Woods set the perfect scene for Jasmine and TK’s sequel wedding, where their love story continued in the most breathtaking way. Surrounded by lush greenery and a serene, romantic ambiance, this second celebration beautifully honored their journey with a fresh, modern twist. With the incredible support of Next Chapter Weddings , every detail of this wedding sequel was thoughtfully planned to reflect Jasmine and TK’s vision, making their American wedding   as unforgettable as their first. Now, let's dive into the highlights and celebrate the incredible vendors who made Jasmine and TK's American wedding a day to remember: The stage is set for the second act—Spoilers! It was a happy ending. The "Cast and Crew" of Jasmine & TK's Sequel Wedding Bar Service: Coopers Cocktails Coopers Cocktails kept the libations flowing with their expertly crafted drinks and impeccable service. From signature cocktails to classic favorites, guests enjoyed a delightful array of beverages that kept the celebration in full swing. Cake: Saints & Sinta - Von Geannel Saints & Sinta - Von Geannel wowed guests with their stunning wedding cake, a true masterpiece of culinary artistry. From the intricate design to the delectable flavors, every bite was a sweet delight that left guests craving for more. Caterer: Calvery Catering Calvery Catering tantalized taste buds with their mouthwatering menu, featuring a delectable selection of dishes that satisfied every palate. From elegant appetizers to sumptuous entrees, Calvery Catering ensured that Jasmine and TK's guests were treated to a culinary experience they would never forget. Ceremony/Cocktail Hour Musicians: Emmanuel, Gabriel, Mike, Sean, Tomi, Amara Emmanuel, Gabriel, Mike, Sean, Tomi, and Amara set the mood with their soulful melodies, providing the perfect soundtrack for both the ceremony and cocktail hour. Their beautiful music filled the air with love and harmony, creating an unforgettable atmosphere for Jasmine and TK's special day. Dance Floor: H&R Event H&R Event transformed the dance floor into a lively party zone, where guests danced the night away to the beats of their favorite tunes. With their top-notch equipment and expert setup, H&R Event ensured that the dance floor was the center of the celebration. Every detail was designed to perfection, adding that special touch to Jasmine & TK's sequel wedding Decor: Next Chapter Weddings We were able to work our magic once again, adorning the venue with our stunning decor that perfectly captured Jasmine and TK's style and personality. From elegant floral arrangements to chic table settings, Next Chapter Weddings created a dreamy atmosphere that enchanted all who attended. Our Decor Service Package is exclusive to our booked Planning and Coordination Clients. This Add-on includes unlimited access to all of our in-house decor, delivery, set-up and take-down services. View our Inventory here. DJ: The Inspo Media Group The Inspo Media Group kept the energy high with their electrifying beats and seamless mixes. From the first dance to the last song of the night, The Inspo Media Group had guests grooving on the dance floor and creating memories that would last a lifetime. When it comes to wedding celebrations, Jasmine and TK are not ones to shy away from adding a dash of excitement and fun. Enter the epic dance battle! Jasmine and TK, known for their love of dance and spirited energy, decided to put a twist on the traditional wedding reception by selecting their dream teams for a dance-off extravaganza. They set out to recruit the most talented dancers among their family and friends to join them on the dance floor for a showdown like no other. And the Award for Best Dance Moves goes to... Everyone! After the official Dance Battle, all were invited to the dance floor. From the bridesmaids and groomsmen to the parents and even the little ones, everyone was invited to showcase their best moves and compete for the title of dance champion. With rehearsals underway and the excitement building, Jasmine and TK's wedding took on a whole new level of energy and anticipation. As the final beats faded away and the applause filled the air, it was clear that everyone had come together to create unforgettable memories and celebrate the love and joy of Jasmine and TK's special day. And so, with smiles on their faces and hearts full of love, Jasmine and TK danced into their happily ever after, surrounded by their cherished family and friends. Florals: BringJoy No wedding is complete without the enchanting touch of flowers, and when it comes to creating stunning floral arrangements that elevate the atmosphere, Bring Joy Florals reigns supreme. Jasmine and TK, along with their trusted wedding planners at Next Chapter Weddings, knew they wanted to infuse their special day with the beauty and romance of exquisite blooms, and Bring Joy Florals was the perfect choice to bring their vision to life. From the moment guests stepped into the venue, they were greeted by the intoxicating scent and vibrant colors of Bring Joy Florals' breathtaking creations. From cascading bouquets to elegant centerpieces, every arrangement was a work of art, meticulously crafted to complement the couple's style and theme. Bring Joy Florals transformed the space into a floral paradise, with blooms cascading from every corner and adorning every surface. Soft pastel hues mixed with rich greens created a dreamy ambiance that transported guests to a world of beauty and romance. Blooms that spoke volumes. Every petal is a testament to Jasmine & TK's love story Whether it was the delicate petals of the bridal bouquet, the lush greenery of the ceremony arch, or the whimsical floral accents adorning the reception tables, Bring Joy Florals' attention to detail and artistic flair shone through in every arrangement. As Jasmine and TK exchanged vows surrounded by their loved ones, the scent of fresh blooms filled the air, adding an extra layer of magic to the heartfelt moment. And as they danced the night away beneath a canopy of flowers, they knew that Bring Joy Florals had played an integral role in making their wedding day a true fairy tale come to life. Thanks to Bring Joy Florals' expertise and passion for their craft, Jasmine and TK's wedding was transformed into a floral wonderland that will be forever etched in their memories and the memories of all who attended. With Bring Joy Florals by their side, their special day was nothing short of a blooming masterpiece. HAMU: Beat by Bern Beat by Bern worked their magic to ensure that Jasmine looked absolutely radiant on her wedding day. With flawless hair and makeup, Jasmine exuded confidence and beauty as she walked down the aisle to marry the love of her life. Linens: Monica's Brides Monica's Brides provided exquisite linens that added a touch of luxury and sophistication to the venue. From crisp tablecloths to delicate napkins, Monica's Brides' linens added the perfect finishing touch to Jasmine and TK's reception decor. Officiant: Pastor Brian Williams Pastor Brian Williams officiated the ceremony with warmth and grace, guiding Jasmine and TK through their vows and pronouncing them husband and wife. His heartfelt words and genuine presence made the ceremony truly unforgettable. Photographer: Jenni Li Photography Jenni Li Photography captured every precious moment of Jasmine and TK's American wedding with skill and artistry. From candid shots to posed portraits, Jenni Li Photography's photos will serve as cherished mementos of their love story for years to come. Cocktail Hour Photographer: Tola Olawole Tola Olawole immortalized the joy and excitement of the cocktail hour with his expert photography skills. From candid snapshots to stunning portraits, Tola's photos captured the essence of the celebration and the love that filled the air. Photobooth: Pixalated Pixalated provided a fun and interactive photobooth experience that allowed guests to capture memories and create keepsakes to treasure forever. With an array of props and backdrops, Pixalated ensured that guests had a blast striking poses and making memories. Security: Addison Woods. The Woodlands Police Addison Woods and The Woodlands Police provided top-notch security to ensure that Jasmine and TK's wedding was a safe and secure event for all. Their professionalism and vigilance allowed guests to relax and enjoy the celebration without a worry in the world. Videographer: Reverent Wedding Films Reverent Wedding Films immortalized Jasmine and TK's American wedding on film, capturing every heartfelt moment and emotion with cinematic beauty. With their expert storytelling and artistic vision, Reverent Wedding Films created a timeless masterpiece that will be treasured for generations. With love in the air and smiles all around, Jasmine and TK's American wedding was a day filled with joy, laughter, and unforgettable moments. Thank you for joining us on this magical journey as we celebrated the next chapter in their love story! Jasmine & TK's love story has only just begun Let's Turn Your Dream Wedding Into a Beautiful New Chapter Are you ready to embark on the journey of a lifetime as you plan your dream wedding? Look no further than Next Chapter Weddings, your trusted partner in crafting unforgettable moments in the Greater Houston area. At Next Chapter Weddings , we understand that every love story is unique, and we're here to help you turn your vision into reality. Whether you're dreaming of an intimate ceremony or a grand celebration, our team of experienced planners is dedicated to bringing your love story to life in the most magical way possible. From planning and coordination to design and decor, Next Chapter Weddings offers a comprehensive range of services to suit your every need. Our talented team will work closely with you every step of the way, ensuring that every detail is meticulously planned and flawlessly executed. Planning a wedding can be overwhelming, but with Next Chapter Weddings by your side, you can relax and enjoy every moment of the journey. Let us handle the logistics, coordinate with vendors, and design a wedding that reflects your unique style and personality. Whether you envision a romantic garden affair, a chic urban soiree, or a lavish ballroom extravaganza, Next Chapter Weddings is here to make your dreams come true. Contact us today to schedule a consultation and take the first step towards unlocking the wedding of your dreams with Next Chapter Weddings. Your happily ever after starts here. VENDOR TEAM Alcohol: Coopers Cooktail  Appetizers: Calvery Catering  Bar Service: Coopers Cooktail Bussers: Calvery Catering  Cake: Saints & Sinta - Von Geannel  Caterer: Calvery Catering  Ceremony/Cocktail Hour Musicians: Emmanuel, Gabriel, Mike, Sean, Tomi, Amara Dance Floor: H&R Event  Decor: Next Chapter Weddings Dinnerware Rentals: Calveary Catering  DJ: The Inspo Media Group Florals: BringJoy HAMU: BeatbyBern  Linens: Monica's Brides Officiant: Pastor Brian Williams Photographer: Jenni Li Photography  Cocktail Hour Photographer: Tola Olawole  Photobooth: Pixalated Security: The Woodlands Police Transportation: {insert} Venue: Addison Woods Videographer: Reverent Wedding Films

A beautiful Nigerian Wedding for Jasmine & TK's love story | Photo by Jenny Lily Photography Jasmine & TK's Unforgettable Nigerian Wedding Welcome back, dear readers, to the enchanting world of Next Chapter Weddings, where every love story is crafted into a mesmerizing masterpiece! I'm Brandi Swanson, the proud Lead Wedding Planner of this incredible team, and I'm delighted to take you on a journey through the heartwarming tale of Jasmine and TK's unforgettable, traditional Nigerian wedding at Enoch's Event Center in Houston, TX. At Next Chapter Weddings, our mission is to turn dreams into reality, and that's exactly what we did for Jasmine and TK. Their love story unfolded like a fairy tale, and we had the honor of orchestrating every magical detail of their special day. The Story Begins! When Jasmine and TK decided to take the next step and tie the knot, they knew they wanted their wedding to be a celebration of their unique love story and cultural heritage. They chose to honor her heritage with a traditional Nigerian wedding ceremony, infused with vibrant colors, rich traditions, and boundless joy. From the intricate beadwork of Jasmine's stunning attire to the rhythmic beats of traditional music filling the air, every aspect of their ceremony radiated with warmth and cultural significance. Stars of the Show! Jasmine & TK in vibrant Nigerian wedding attire | Photo by Jenny Lily Photography As their dedicated Wedding Coordinator, it was my privilege to ensure that every detail was executed flawlessly. From coordinating with talented vendors to managing the intricacies of cultural customs, my team and I worked tirelessly to create an unforgettable experience for Jasmine and TK and their guests. Enoch Event Center served as the perfect backdrop for their festivities, providing an elegant and versatile space that allowed us to bring their vision to life. With its spacious halls and luxurious amenities, Enoch Event Center set the stage for a day filled with love, laughter, and unforgettable memories. Now, let's shine the spotlight on the incredible vendors who helped make Jasmine and TK's day truly spectacular: Meet the Wedding Dream Team of Vendors! Fruit Table Set Up: Bunmi Bolumole Bunmi Bolumole's exquisite fruit table set up was a feast for the eyes and the taste buds. With a stunning array of fresh fruits expertly arranged to perfection, Bunmi added a touch of elegance and sophistication to the celebration. Cake: Deola Mine Irabor Deola Mine Irabor's masterpiece cake stole the show with its intricate design and delectable flavors. From the first bite to the last crumb, guests were treated to a sweet symphony of flavors that perfectly complemented the joyous occasion. Amala Food Caterer: Thefpak Princess Amala Famous "Princess" Thefpak Princess Amala Famous "Princess" delighted guests with a mouthwatering spread of authentic Nigerian cuisine. From savory stews to fluffy pounded yam, every dish was a culinary delight that transported guests to the heart of Nigeria. Luxurious table settings by Layo Odusanwo | Photo by Jenny Lily Photography Decor: Layo Odusanwo Layo Odusanwo's artistic flair transformed the venue into a breathtaking masterpiece. From vibrant floral arrangements to elegant table settings, Layo's decor was a true reflection of Jasmine and TK's love and style. DJ: Demola "Joe" Osinowo Demola "Joe" Osinowo kept the dance floor packed all night long with his infectious beats and electrifying energy. From classic hits to modern favorites, Demola had guests of all ages dancing the night away and creating memories that would last a lifetime. Ceremony Gift Table and Letters: Funke Akinokun Funke Akinokun's attention to detail ensured that every aspect of Jasmine and TK's ceremony was flawless. From the beautifully decorated gift table to the heartfelt letters exchanged between the couple, Funke added a personal touch that made the day even more special. Hair Tie "Gele": Wunmi Wunmi's expertly tied gele added a touch of elegance and tradition to Jasmine's bridal ensemble. With intricate folds and impeccable styling, Wunmi's gele was the perfect finishing touch to Jasmine's stunning look. Jasmine glowing in vibrant blue | Photo by Jenny Lily Photography HAMU: Bernice Adebanjo Bernice Adebanjo's skillful hair and makeup artistry enhanced Jasmine's natural beauty, leaving her radiant and glowing on her special day. With flawless makeup and a chic hairstyle, Bernice ensured that Jasmine looked and felt like a queen as she walked down the aisle. Host: Yemi Sholotan Yemi Sholotan's charismatic presence kept the festivities flowing smoothly from start to finish. With his warm smile and engaging personality, Yemi kept guests entertained and ensured that every moment of Jasmine and TK's celebration was filled with joy and laughter. Photographer: Jenny Lily Photography Jenny Lily Photography captured every precious moment of Jasmine and TK's day with skill and artistry. From intimate portraits to candid snapshots, Jenny's photos will serve as cherished mementos of their love story for years to come. 360 Photobooth: Happy Venue Photobooth Happy Venue Photobooth added an extra dose of fun to the celebration with their innovative 360 photobooth. Guests enjoyed striking poses and creating memorable keepsakes that captured the joy and excitement of the day. Videographer: Reverent Wedding Films Reverent Wedding Films immortalized Jasmine and TK's love story on film, capturing every heartfelt moment and emotion with cinematic beauty. With their expert storytelling and artistic vision, Reverent Wedding Films created a timeless masterpiece that will be treasured for generations. Looking sharp! TK and his entourage | Photo by Jenny Lily Photography Celebrating This Chapter with Love and Gratitude Together, this incredible team of vendors helped us bring Jasmine and TK's vision to life, creating a day filled with love, laughter, and unforgettable memories. Thank you for joining us on this joyous journey with Next Chapter Weddings, where happily ever afters come to life! I’m beyond grateful to everyone who helped bring this dream wedding to life. It was truly an amazing experience! But the magic didn't stop there! Following the traditional ceremony, Jasmine and TK hosted a spectacular reception that perfectly blended Nigerian traditions with modern elegance. From the lively dance performances to the mouthwatering feast of traditional delicacies, every moment was a testament to their love and the joyous union of their families and cultures. At Next Chapter Weddings, we believe that every love story deserves to be celebrated in its own unique way. Whether it's a traditional ceremony, a modern affair, or a fusion of cultures, we are here to turn your dreams into reality and create memories that will last a lifetime. Thank you for joining us on this joyous journey with Jasmine and TK. Stay tuned for more love-filled tales from Next Chapter Weddings, where happily ever afters come to life! Vendor Team: Wedding Coordinator: Next Chapter Weddings Wedding Venue: Enoch Event Center Appetizers & Cocktail: Boma Shodeko Fruit Table Set Up: Bunmi Bolumole Cake: Deola Mine Irabor Amala Food Caterer: Thefpak Princess Amala Famous "Princess"  Nigerian Food Caterer: Caroline Awolu Ceremony Musicians: Yemi Sholotan Decor: Layo Odusanwo  DJ: Demola "Joe" Osinowo  Ceremony Gift Table and Letters: Funke Akinokun  Hair Tie "Gele": Wunmi HAMU: Bernice Adebanjo Host: Yemi Sholotan Photographer: Jenny Lily Photography  360 Photobooth: Happy Venue Photobooth  Videographer: Reverent Wedding Films

Ending the Day with Meaning & Magic After the vows are said, the cake is cut, and the dance floor begins to quiet down, there’s one final moment that wraps it all up with a bow — the wedding send-off. It’s more than just a pretty photo-op (though yes, we do love a sparkler shot!). A send-off is a joyful, intentional way to close out your celebration. Honoring everything the day has been and all that’s to come in your marriage. It’s the moment that says, "This day was magic, and now our next chapter begins." Let’s talk about why the send-off still matters, and how to make yours one to remember. Why a Wedding Send-Off Still Matters It’s the emotional finale. Like any great story, your wedding day deserves a beautiful ending. A send-off lets you pause, take it all in, and walk into married life surrounded by cheers, love, and maybe a few bubbles or petals along the way. It gives your guests a meaningful goodbye. Weddings can move fast — one moment you’re dancing, the next it’s already midnight. A send-off is a natural way to gather everyone one last time, giving your guests a chance to celebrate you both and say their farewells in a joyful, shared moment. It’s a chance to show your style. From dried flowers to vintage cars, your send-off can be as creative or classic as you want. Whether you’re romantic, modern, whimsical, or totally unexpected, the final send-off is a great place to let your personalities shine. Send-Off Ideas That Feel True to You If you’re not feeling the traditional rice toss or sparklers, here are a few ideas our team at Next Chapter Weddings loves! Flower Petals:  Soft, romantic, and stunning in photos, especially if they match your bouquet. Eco-Confetti or Dried Leaves:  Biodegradable and beautiful for outdoor weddings. Bubbles:  Light, fun, and kid-friendly — perfect for daytime send-offs. Ribbon Wands or Streamers:  Adds movement and color without the cleanup. Glow Sticks or LED Wands:  Great for nighttime weddings and dance floor energy. A Getaway Car Moment:  Drive off in a classic convertible or a retro van for that cinematic finale. Let’s Talk Timing & Logistics One of the top questions couples ask us is: “How does this actually work?” That’s where we come in... At Next Chapter Weddings , we make sure your send-off is built into your timeline seamlessly — so it doesn’t feel rushed or like an afterthought. Whether you want a big crowd moment or something more intimate before the after-party, we’ll help it feel natural and you . We’ll also handle all the behind-the-scenes details, like: Who’s passing out the petals or lighting the sparklers? Are we following venue rules (and keeping the fire marshal happy)? Who’s setting the scene and guiding guests? Is the getaway car ready and waiting? You won’t have to stress. You’ll just grab your partner’s hand and take in every second. Let’s Plan Your Perfect Ending Your send-off doesn’t have to be extravagant. It just has to feel right for you — a heartfelt ending to the best day of your lives (so far). At Next Chapter Weddings , we help bring together all the personal touches that turn traditions into something uniquely yours. Whether it’s a romantic stroll under fairy lights, a glow-stick tunnel, or a confetti explosion. We’ll help you create a send-off that feels like the perfect “next step.” Ready to plan a wedding finale that’s meaningful, magical, and totally you? Let’s talk creative ideas and timeline tips, and get your dream send-off rolling.

Starting a wedding planning business? It’s exciting, nerve-wracking, and maybe a tiny bit like standing at the edge of a high dive wondering if you should just jump already. When I first started, I had all  the questions running through my head. I kept wondering… would I feel more confident if I had another certification? A degree? Or maybe some kind of official “yes, you’re ready” from someone else? None of that is what truly makes you ready. Here’s what I’ve learned — your own experience, passion, and gut instincts are incredibly powerful tools.  Yes, education and training are great, but trusting yourself (even when you don’t feel 100% ready) is what actually moves you forward and helps you build a business that feels like yours . Why Self-Trust Matters You know your magic – No one else has your exact mix of personality, skills, and life experience. Maybe you’re a master at keeping people calm, or you have a natural eye for beautiful details. Couples want authenticity – They’re not looking for a clone of another planner — they want someone real, genuine, relatable, and confident enough to guide them. Mistakes are part of growth – Things can go wrong sometimes, that’s just life (and weddings). Self-trust means you’ll handle it, learn from it, and keep going. You set your own path – When you trust yourself, you build a business on your terms and create a path that fits you. How to Build Trust in Yourself as a New Planner 1. Reflect on Your Past Experience –   Maybe you’ve planned your own wedding, helped with family events, or worked in related roles. These are all valuable foundations, even if they weren’t “official” jobs. Those experiences gave you skills that will serve you well as a wedding planner. 2. Educate Yourself Continually –   Books, workshops, mentors, and online resources can boost your skills but remember, knowledge alone doesn’t equal confidence. The key is putting what you learn into practice so it becomes second nature. 3. Celebrate Small Wins –   A successful event, satisfied client, or solved problem is proof that you’re capable. Don’t brush past these moments. They’re what build your confidence over time and remind you that you’re moving in the right direction. 4. Connect with a Supportive Community –   Find other planners or entrepreneurs who encourage and uplift you. Being around people who “get it” can make all the difference when you’re feeling unsure or need fresh ideas. 5. Practice Self-Compassion –   Remind yourself that perfection isn’t the goal — showing up authentically is. There will be days when things don’t go as planned, and being kind to yourself will help you bounce back faster. My Journey to Self-Trust After my first certification, I realized no course or contract was going to define my worth. What truly matters is the heart I put into every wedding, the way I care for my couples, and the effort I show up with every single time. Learning to trust myself didn’t just change my business — it changed how I felt about my work. And if you’re just starting out, hear me when I say: you already have more than enough to begin. Trust yourself. You’ll be amazed at where it takes you. You already have everything you need to be an incredible wedding planner. It’s just a matter of trusting your voice, your vision, and your journey. With belief in you, Brandi Founder + Lead Planner, Next Chapter Weddings 📍 Houston, TX — Championing authentic, confident wedding planners Connect with me → @nextchapterweddings

Wedding vows highlight a couple's love, commitment, and promises for their future together! Writing your own wedding vows? That’s a big moment. It’s one of the most intimate, personal things you can do on the way to your big day, and honestly, it’s a chance to say something that truly reflects you and your partner. This isn’t about memorizing some classic vows or trying to be perfect—it’s about speaking from the heart. Your vows should speak directly to the person you're about to spend forever with. In this guide, I’ll walk you through the art of writing personalized wedding vows that feel real, meaningful, and 100% you. I’ve got plenty of ideas and inspiration to help you put those feelings into words and create promises that really resonate. Tips for Writing Wedding Vows 1. Reflect on Your Relationship Before you start writing your own personalized wedding vows, take some time to reflect on your relationship. Think about the moments that have defined your journey together, the challenges you've overcome, and the dreams you share for the future. Consider what your partner means to you and the qualities that you admire most about them. These reflections will serve as the foundation for your unique wedding vows, guiding you as you articulate your promises for each other. 2. Consider Your Values and Beliefs Your wedding vows are a declaration of your shared values and beliefs as a couple. Think about what marriage means to you and the principles that you want to uphold in your life together. Whether it's honesty, trust, compassion, or adventure, incorporating your values into your vows will give them deeper significance and resonance. It’s all about the two of you — Focus on each other, your love, and the promises you’re making for the future. 3. Express Your Promises At the heart of your vows are the promises you make to your partner, your commitment to love, support, and cherish them for a lifetime. These are not just words, they are the foundation of your future together. As you write your vows, try to be specific about the ways you will honor these promises. Think about the little and big things that show your dedication, whether it is supporting their dreams, being their rock during tough times, or making them smile every day. The more personal and clear your promises are, the more meaningful they will feel. This is your chance to make a lasting impact with the words that will shape your future together. 4. Share Your Love Story Your wedding vows are an opportunity to share your unique love story with your partner and your guests. Consider incorporating anecdotes or memories that capture the essence of your relationship and the journey you've taken together. Whether it's the moment you first knew you were in love, or a special experience that brought you closer together. Sharing these moments will add depth and authenticity to your vows. Perfect words don't matter, just be honest and speak from the heart 5. Include Personalized Touches Adding personalized touches to your wedding vows can make them even more meaningful. Consider incorporating inside jokes, quotes from your favorite songs or movies, or references to shared experiences that are unique to your relationship. These personal touches will not only make your vows more memorable but also remind you of the laughter and joy that you share as a couple. 6. Mention a Loved One Who Help Sparked Your Love Story Incorporating a mention of a loved one who played a significant role in your love story can add depth and meaning to your peronalized wedding vows. Whether it's a friend who introduced you, a family member who offered guidance and support, or a mentor who inspired you to be a better partner, acknowledging their influence can be a touching tribute to the community that surrounds and uplifts you. Consider sharing a heartfelt thank you or a special memory that highlights their contribution to your relationship. By honoring the people who have helped shape your love story, you not only celebrate your bond as a couple but also recognize the interconnectedness of your lives with those you hold dear. If it makes your partner smile, it’s always worth it! 7. Include Humor Adding a touch of humor to your wedding vows can lighten the mood and showcase the playful side of your relationship. Consider incorporating inside jokes, funny anecdotes, or lighthearted promises that reflect your shared sense of humor. Whether it's a witty remark about your partner's quirks or a playful vow to always laugh at each other's bad jokes, injecting humor into your vows can bring smiles to your faces and warmth to your hearts. Just remember to keep it light and tasteful, ensuring that your humor complements the sincerity and love that underpins your vows. After all, laughter is not only the best medicine but also a beautiful ingredient in a lasting marriage. 8. Speak from the Heart Above all, your personalized wedding vows should come from the heart. Don't worry about trying to impress your guests or following a traditional format. Instead, focus on expressing your true feelings and emotions in your own words. Speak honestly and authentically, letting your love for your partner shine through in every word you say. And do not forget to say "I love you" Don’t overthink it— the best vows come naturally. FAQs About Wedding Vows How long should my wedding vows be? The length of wedding vows can vary depending on personal preference, cultural traditions, and the overall tone of the ceremony. Generally, wedding vows typically range from one to three minutes in length when spoken aloud. This translates to roughly around 100 to 300 words per person. Short and sweet vows might consist of a few heartfelt sentences expressing love, commitment, and promises to each other. Longer vows may include more personal anecdotes, reflections on the relationship, and specific promises made to each other. Ultimately, the most important aspect of wedding vows is that they are sincere, heartfelt, and meaningful to the couple exchanging them. Do we have to write our own vows? No, you're not obligated to write your own vows. Many couples choose to use traditional vows provided by their officiant or religious institution. However, writing your own vows can add a personal and meaningful touch to your ceremony. Do our vows have to be the same length? No, your vows don't have to be the same length. Each person's vows should reflect their own feelings and promises to their partner.  Should we share our vows with each other before the wedding? It's entirely up to you whether you want to share your vows with each other before the wedding. Some couples prefer to keep them a surprise until the ceremony, while others feel more comfortable sharing them in advance.  Do we need to memorize our wedding vows? Memorizing your vows is optional. Some couples prefer to memorize them for a more intimate and personal delivery, while others feel more comfortable reading them from a written copy. Choose whichever option feels right for you. Enhancing your written vows with cohesive stationery that aligns with your overall wedding design adds a personal touch to the ceremony, should you choose this option. Can we just personalize the traditional vows?   Yes, you can personalize traditional vows to make them more meaningful to you as a couple. You can add personal anecdotes, promises, or sentiments that reflect your relationship while still honoring the traditional structure. Should we practice saying our vows beforehand? It's a good idea to practice saying your vows beforehand, especially if you're memorizing them. This will help you feel more confident and relaxed during the ceremony. You can practice together or with a trusted friend or family member. Having someone else proofread for you is always a good idea.  What if we aren’t good at public speaking? It's normal to feel nervous about saying your vows in front of a crowd. Take deep breaths, speak slowly and clearly, and focus on your partner. Remember, this is a moment to celebrate your love, and your guests are there to support you. Always remember that your vows are your love in words One Last Bit of Advice... Writing your own wedding vows is one of the most meaningful ways to express your love and commitment. It’s your chance to speak from the heart and share what truly matters to you both. So, take your time, reflect on your journey together, think about the promises that feel right for your future, and don’t be afraid to let your personality shine through. Whether you keep it simple or pour your heart out, the most important thing is that your vows feel authentic to you. Enjoy the process, and trust that whatever you write will be perfect because it comes from you. Now, you're ready to write your own wedding vows! We’re Here for Your Whole Love Story Feeling inspired to write your vows? Let us help make the rest of your wedding just as meaningful. At Next Chapter Weddings, we’re all about creating unforgettable celebrations that reflect your unique love story—from the words you say to the memories you make. Whether you're planning something intimate or grand, close to home or somewhere new, we’re here to support you every step of the way. Follow us on Instagram @next_chapter_weddings or visit NextChapterWeddings.com to start your journey today. Let’s bring your vision to life!

Serena & Hector's Downtown Houston Wedding | Eddy Herrera Photography A Speakeasy Romance with a Downtown Twist There’s something wildly romantic about blending old-school charm with modern city vibes and Serena and Hector pulled it off flawlessly.  Think vintage speakeasy style meets the heart of downtown: twinkling lights, towering buildings, and a love story that felt like it belonged on the silver screen. It was intimate, bold, and full of personality—just like the couple themselves. From the nervous giggles to the heartfelt vows echoing beneath skyscrapers, every moment of their wedding carried that moody-glam magic you only get when classic romance meets contemporary edge. Being part of the Next Chapter Weddings team means we get a front-row seat to love stories of all kinds... and Serena and Hector’s day? It was one of those unforgettable celebrations that makes you fall in love with love all over again. "Nothing beats witnessing a love story bloom, and come to life on a Wedding day!" Saturday, September 28, 2024, brought clear skies and a warm, sunny afternoon, setting the stage for a nearly perfect evening. After months of meticulous planning and collaboration with countless individuals, vendors, and teams, the day finally arrived. Moment of truth: Serena prepares to walk down the aisle with her dad A Wedding Venue within Downtown Houston Nestled in the heart of Houston, Lawless Spirits & Kitchen offered a unique blend of vintage charm   and modern elegance. With its inviting atmosphere, creative cocktails, and delectable cuisine, this venue creates an unforgettable celebration. The venue’s exotic and luxurious decor boasts a tasteful Art Deco design. As if slipping into a 1920’s speakeasy, I was left intrigued and comfortable in the warm ambiance of the space. Tremendous metal light fixtures, gold bead curtains, extensive wooden bar, and softly lit nooks all worked together seamlessly to achieve this goal.  Party-Ready: Dressing Up the Reception Area The reception area was already set with tables, chairs and linens. Upon arrival, our team (NCW) set to work decorating. The silk garlands and bouquets from Something Borrowed Blooms were a pleasant surprise! As we unboxed the floral arrangements we were greeted by a pleasant aroma, no doubt intentionally applied by the florist. The silk flowers were some of the best quality our team had witnessed, and it had us all considering this option more often for future events!   Serena & Hector First Dance as Husband and Wife The delicate blues and whites were joined by a name place setting for each guest - a painted field of flowers. In addition, an “order of event” set of cards describing the drinks, dinner, and dessert that were to come, completed the place setting in a trio of pink, blue, and green. Serena and Hector had obviously put a lot of thought into the seating of their guests, and we were able to execute the plan to its completion. Our presence in the reception space also allowed us to field any questions from vendors or family. The meetings between our Lead Coordinator, Brandi, and the couple ensured that we were the knowledgeable gatekeepers of all information. You may or may not be surprised by how many questions are asked on a wedding day! With each inquiry I am able to respond to, I am reminded that somewhere closeby, the bride is relaxed and has her feet propped up, drink in hand… unbothered. Isn’t that how it should be?! We think so. Prepping the Ceremony Site for "I Do" Once we put the finishing touches on the reception area, we moved on to the ceremony site. The outdoor patio, which was the setting for Serena and Hector's ceremony, was breathtaking. We were surrounded on all sides by Houston’s towering skyscrapers. The life of the city played into the setting but never outshined what took place on the patio. The greenery wall, twinkle lights, and chiavari chairs were all provided by the venue. A few floral pieces were added, and within a matter of minutes the ceremony site was complete! A Beautiful Moment: Serena & Hector Exchange Vows With Every Arrival, the Venue Felt More Alive It wasn’t long before the wedding venue was bustling with the arrival of Hector and Serena’s guests. When our team is booked with a Lead Coordinator and  Assistant, as it was with this wedding, we are able to cover more ground. While Brandi stayed with the bride and the wedding party, I was stationed to welcome guests, direct traffic, and communicate with the DJ regarding where we were on the timeline. The results - an effortless official start to a fabulous evening. Next Chapter Weddings Carefully Plans Every Little Step When weddings are your life, as they are for us, you know what questions to ask in planning meetings to make sure no detail is overlooked. A simple point can make a huge impact! For example, where would the couple prefer to stand in relation to the audience? For Serena and Hector, they chose to stand opposite to their family so their faces could be seen by their loved ones; groom's family on the right, groom on the left… bride’s family on the left, bride on the right. This practice is becoming more and more commonplace because it just makes sense! It was particularly important to our bride and groom to have all communication in both English and Spanish to make certain every guest could fully appreciate this special occasion. They sought out a bilingual officiant, DJ, and Emcee. It was particularly helpful to have a bilingual Emcee when our Mariachi band arrived! The Emcee introduced the group with all the gusto a troop deserves, and they proceeded to serenade the couple during dinner hour. The Venue & Staff Absolutely Delivered! The reception is where the Kitchen, of Lawless Spirits & Kitchen, truly shines. The wedding couple was able to work closely with the culinary team to design a menu that suited their tastes, including gourmet appetizers and mouth watering entrees. And wedding cake was not the only dessert to be had that night! A flight of delectable treats made their rounds following dinner. The bar was a highlight, featuring handcrafted cocktails, personalized to fit the theme of the wedding.  All areas of the venue were appropriately staffed, and all guests were served promptly and graciously. I particularly appreciated the venue’s lead liaison. Her bright smile and attentiveness won me over instantly, and she continued to impress as everything “venue related” was taken care of without prompting from our team. They were completely on point! No stress. Just joy. That’s when you know it all came together perfectly. As coordinators we were able to provide the family of the bride and groom the freedom to enjoy the celebration, free from responsibility, from start to finish. It was a delight to see this first hand! As the evening progressed, the parents of Hector and Serena were able to dine and dance, all while congratulating these two special people in their lives on their next chapter. And back to the Ah-mazing patio - it was a breezy get-away spot during the reception, a quiet place to enjoy a cocktail, and a great backdrop for photos! Following the ceremony, the space was swiftly transformed. The photographer, Eddy Herrea, took full advantage of the expanse as he proceeded with a lineup of family photos. The incredible DJ, A.M. Productions, was also the Photobooth vendor. His team quickly set up the Photobooth and stayed for the full event to assist guests.  It Was a Day to Remember As I reflect on all that took place that day, and the small part I played in it, I am brought back to the love between Serena and Hector. It is genuine. It exudes happiness. It creates a soft glow in my heart as I picture him kneeling before her, swapping her fancy high heels for equally fancy bedazzled high top tennis shoes. How lucky am I that I got to be there for them?! They were a perfect couple. It was a perfect space. And I will forever be amazed by this downtown Houston wedding scene.  Hope to see you on the next post! Dream It. Plan It. Live It! The Vendor Dream Team Wedding Planner: Next Chapter Weddings Venue, Appetizers, Dinner, Sweets, Bar Service, Bussers: Lawless Spirits & Kitchen Cake: Hector Galvan Castillo DJ, Photobooth: A.M. Productions Florals: Something Borrowed Blooms HAMU: Polished Makeup & Hair Photographer: Eddy Herrera Photography

Selecting the right season for your wedding isn’t just about picking a date — it shapes the mood, the look, and the entire experience your guests will carry with them. Every time of year has its own unique perks. Whether you're drawn to the lively and colorful energy of spring, the sun-drenched warmth of summer, the rich and earthy tones of fall, or the serene and cozy ambiance of winter, knowing the character of each season helps you tailor a celebration that feels true to you. In this guide, we’ll share how to make the most of your chosen season and planning a wedding around it, from planning your floral arrangements to choosing the right attire and crafting a menu that complements the time of year. Think of it as your cheat sheet for planning a wedding in any season with confidence. With a little foresight (and a lot of style), your day won’t just match the time of year — it’ll feel like the best version of it. Spring Weddings: Embracing Renewal and Blossoms 1. Embrace Seasonal Flowers Spring is synonymous with fresh blooms and vibrant colors. Opt for flowers that are in season, such as tulips, daffodils, peonies, and hyacinths. These flowers not only add a seasonal touch to your bouquet and décor but are also often more affordable than out-of-season options. Consider incorporating a variety of colors and textures to reflect the rejuvenation of the season. 2. Prepare for Variable Weather Spring weather can be unpredictable, with sunny spells quickly giving way to rain. Be prepared with a backup plan for outdoor ceremonies, such as a tent or an indoor venue. Additionally, consider providing guests with clear umbrellas as a stylish and practical favor if the weather forecast predicts showers. 3. Light and Airy Attire Spring temperatures can vary from cool to warm, so choose wedding attire that can accommodate fluctuating weather. Lightweight fabrics like chiffon and lace are ideal for bridesmaids' dresses, while groomsmen can opt for lighter suits. Don’t forget to plan for layering options—think shawls or boleros for cooler moments. 4. Seasonal Menu Options Spring offers a bounty of fresh, seasonal produce. Incorporate dishes like asparagus, strawberries, and spring greens into your menu. A spring-inspired menu not only aligns with the season but also provides a fresh and vibrant dining experience for your guests. 5. Eco-Friendly Choices Spring is a great time to consider eco-friendly options for your wedding. Think about using local, seasonal flowers, and sustainable materials for invitations and décor. Many couples also choose to support local vendors, which reduces the carbon footprint of their celebrations. Summer Weddings: Celebrating in the Sunshine 1. Beat the Heat Summer weddings can be sweltering, so it’s essential to keep your guests cool and comfortable. Choose a venue with good air conditioning or provide fans and cool beverages. For outdoor ceremonies, consider scheduling the event in the evening when temperatures are lower. 2. Light and Breezy Attire Opt for lightweight fabrics like cotton, linen, or silk to keep you and your bridal party cool. Breathable materials and relaxed silhouettes are not only stylish but practical for hot weather. For outdoor ceremonies, consider open-toe shoes and lightweight accessories. 3. Hydration and Refreshments Keep your guests hydrated with a variety of refreshing beverages. Consider a signature cocktail, lemonade, or an infused water station. Ice cream or sorbet stations are also a fun and cool way to treat your guests during the reception. 4. Summer Florals and Décor Summer is perfect for bold and bright floral arrangements. Choose flowers that are in season like sunflowers, dahlias, and roses. Incorporate vibrant colors into your décor, and use tropical or beach-inspired elements if you’re having a destination wedding. 5. Plan for Sun Protection If you’re having an outdoor wedding, make sure to provide shaded areas for your guests. Offering sunscreen or stylish parasols can also be a thoughtful touch. Additionally, plan your ceremony time to avoid the peak afternoon heat. Fall Weddings: Capturing the Essence of Autumn 1. Embrace Rich Colors and Textures Fall is known for its warm, rich colors and cozy textures. Incorporate deep hues like burgundy, emerald, and burnt orange into your wedding palette. Velvet, tweed, and wool are excellent choices for bridal and bridesmaids' attire, adding a touch of autumnal warmth to your celebration. 2. Seasonal Food and Drink Fall offers a plethora of delicious seasonal options. Consider a menu featuring dishes with ingredients like pumpkin, squash, and apples. A hot cider or spiced wine station can add a comforting touch to your cocktail hour. 3. Weather Considerations While fall temperatures can be pleasantly cool, they can also drop unexpectedly. Make sure to have warm layers available for your bridal party and guests. Pashminas, wraps, or even a chic faux fur stole can keep everyone cozy. 4. Autumnal Décor The fall landscape provides a natural backdrop of colorful leaves and harvest elements. Utilize pumpkins, gourds, and fall foliage in your décor. A rustic, barn-style venue or a picturesque outdoor setting can enhance the autumnal ambiance. 5. Daylight Hours With shorter daylight hours, plan your ceremony and reception times accordingly. Consider a late afternoon ceremony followed by an evening reception to take advantage of the beautiful fall sunset and ensure your photos capture the warm, golden light. Winter Weddings: Celebrating the Season of Snow 1. Winter Wonderland Décor Winter weddings can be magical, evoking a sense of elegance and wonder. Think about incorporating elements like snowflakes, frosted branches, and sparkling lights into your décor. For a more luxurious touch, consider adding metallic accents in gold, silver, or bronze. 2. Warm and Cozy Attire Winter calls for warmth and comfort. Opt for long-sleeved or three-quarter-sleeve wedding gowns and consider heavier fabrics like satin or brocade. Grooms can choose a classic wool suit or a tuxedo with a velvet touch. Accessories like gloves, scarves, and shawls can add both warmth and style. 3. Seasonal Cuisine Winter is the season for hearty, comforting foods. Serve dishes like roasted meats, rich soups, and decadent desserts. A hot chocolate bar or a spiked cider station can add a cozy touch to your reception. 4. Weather and Travel Plans Winter weather can be unpredictable, so have a contingency plan in place. Ensure that your venue is accessible even in snowy conditions and consider providing transportation for your guests. A winter wedding may also require extra planning for heating and ensuring that your venue is adequately prepared for colder temperatures. 5. Festive Touches If your wedding is close to the holidays, consider incorporating festive elements like Christmas decorations or New Year’s Eve themes. This can add an extra layer of joy and celebration to your special day. Just be sure to balance holiday décor with your wedding theme to avoid overwhelming the space. Wedding Planning for the Season of Your Love Story When it comes down to it, choosing a season isn’t just about weather patterns or what flowers are in bloom — it’s about the feeling you want to create. Do you imagine your guests sipping cocktails under twinkling lights on a warm night, or cozying up with spiced wine as the fire crackles? Do you want to dance under a canopy of spring blossoms, or sparklers against a backdrop of winter snow? That vision, more than the calendar date, is what shapes the heart of your wedding day. The season you choose should feel aligned with your love story. When you plan with intention, every detail reflects not just the time of year, but the essence of you two . With thoughtful planning and a touch of seasonal magic, your wedding becomes more than an event; it becomes a chapter in your story that everyone will remember. No matter the season, your wedding should be unforgettable. Click here to start your next chapter with us.

Your First Big Celebration Starts Now! First off – Congratulations on your engagement! Now that you’ve said "yes," it’s time to celebrate with your closest family and friends. Your engagement party is the first big event leading up to your wedding, and it’s your chance to set the tone for all the fun that lies ahead. Whether you’re dreaming of an intimate gathering or a lively celebration, this guide will help you plan an engagement party that’s memorable for you, your fiancé, and your guests. A Guide to the Best Engagement Party of Your Life: Top 10 Tips! 1. Start with the Basics: the When and the Where It’s always good to start with the basics. One of the first steps to planning your engagement party is locking in the date and location . Once those are set, everything else falls into place more easily. Ideally, you’ll want to celebrate within a few months of the proposal. While that “just engaged” excitement is still buzzing! Pick a date that works well not just for you two, but also for the VIPs in your life (you know, the people you absolutely want there to share in the joy and raise a glass with you.). Then, think about the kind of atmosphere you’re going for. Are you picturing a cozy brunch with mimosas, an elegant garden party, or a candlelit evening with cocktails and your favorite playlist? Your venue should reflect that vibe, whether it’s your parents’ backyard, a favorite restaurant, or a beautiful little event space. The goal? A space where you and your fiancé can celebrate comfortably with the people you love most. 2. Define Your Guest List Unlike the larger guest list for your wedding day, your engagement party guest list is typically much more intimate. This is your chance to celebrate your recent engagement in a personal setting, surrounded by those closest to you—immediate family, close friends, and perhaps a few others who've played a significant role in your relationship. Navigating the guest list can be tricky, especially if you’re planning a larger wedding but want this celebration to be smaller and low-key. A simple rule to follow is to invite only those who will also be attending your wedding. This keeps the event intimate and ensures you're sharing this milestone with the people who matter most. 3. Pick a Theme that Reflects You and Your Fiancé The theme doesn’t have to be elaborate, but it should reflect you as a couple. Are you both adventure lovers? Consider a travel-themed party. Are you foodies? A gourmet dinner party might be perfect. Having a theme helps guide your decisions on decorations, food, and activities, making the planning process smoother and more cohesive. 4. Delegate Tasks to Keep the Stress at Bay As the bride, you’ve got a lot on your plate, so don’t hesitate to ask for help. Delegation is your best friend when it comes to planning an engagement party. Enlist family members and friends to take on specific tasks, so you can focus on enjoying the moment. Invitations: Have someone you trust design and send out the invites, whether they’re physical or digital. Decorations: Assign a friend with an eye for design to handle the décor, ensuring it aligns with your theme and vision. Catering/Food: Whether you’re going DIY or hiring a caterer, delegate the menu planning to someone who knows your taste and can cater to any dietary needs. Entertainment: If you’re planning to have live music, games, or other entertainment, assign this to someone who can coordinate and make sure everything runs smoothly. Photography: Don’t forget to capture the memories! Ask a friend with a good camera or hire a photographer to take candid shots throughout the event. 5. Create a Warm and Inviting Atmosphere You want your engagement party to feel welcoming and special. Start with the décor—think about adding personal touches like photos of you and your fiancé, candles, or flowers to create a cozy, romantic vibe. Lighting plays a big role in setting the mood as well. If you’re hosting an evening event, string lights or candles can add warmth. For a daytime party, make sure the venue is filled with natural light to keep things bright and cheerful. 6. Plan Activities that Encourage Guests to Mingle While the focus is on celebrating you and your fiancé, it’s important that your guests have a great time too. Plan activities that encourage mingling and keep the energy up. Here are a few ideas: Icebreakers: Simple games like "How Well Do You Know the Couple?" can get people talking and laughing. Photo Booth: Set up a small photo booth with props related to you and your fiancé’s interests. It’s a fun way to capture memories and get guests interacting. Toasts and Speeches: Encourage your family and friends to share short, heartfelt toasts. These can be spontaneous or planned, but they add a personal touch to the event. Music and Dancing: Whether you hire a DJ or create a playlist, music sets the mood. Keep the tunes light and upbeat, with a mix that appeals to all ages. 7. Make it Special for You and Your Fiancé This day is all about celebrating your love and commitment, so make sure it’s extra special for you and your fiancé. Here’s how: Personalized Touches: Incorporate elements that are unique to your relationship, like your favorite songs, foods, or even inside jokes. Memory Lane: Create a slideshow or a memory wall with photos from your relationship’s journey. This adds a nostalgic touch and gives guests a glimpse into your love story. Gift from the Hosts: If you’re planning your own party, consider gifting yourselves something small but meaningful to mark the occasion, like a scrapbook or a framed photo from the event. 8. Wrap it Up with Thoughtful Favors As the party winds down, sending your guests off with a small token of appreciation is a thoughtful way to thank them for their support. The key is to keep it simple and meaningful—something that ties back to your theme or love story. Personalized favors often make the most memorable keepsakes. Consider items that reflect you and your fiancé’s shared interests. For example, if you both love wine, mini bottles with personalized labels could be a perfect fit. A small note explaining why the wine is special to you as a couple would add a personal touch. For a seasonal or location-specific theme, your favors can reflect the time of year or your surroundings. For a summer engagement party, consider local honey or homemade jam, while a winter event could feature cozy hot cocoa kits. Alternatively, creative options like custom seed packets or artisanal spices are great for couples with unique interests. Handmade or locally crafted items, like a small candle from a local artisan or a favorite snack, can also bring a special, personal touch. Whatever you choose, make sure the favor feels authentic to your relationship. 9. Capture the Moments You’ll want to remember this special day, so make sure someone is in charge of capturing all the important moments. Whether you hire a professional or ask a talented friend, having beautiful photos or a video of your engagement party will allow you to relive the memories for years to come. 10. Final Thoughts: Keep it Stress-Free and Fun Remember, your engagement party is just the beginning of your wedding journey, so it should be enjoyable and relatively stress-free. With the right planning, delegation, and attention to detail, you’ll be able to create a celebration that’s as unique and special as you and your fiancé. Keep the focus on love, laughter, and togetherness, and you’ll set the perfect tone for the celebrations to come. Ready, Set, Party! With your engagement party behind you and those memories still fresh, it’s time to focus on the next exciting chapter: planning your wedding! This is where the real magic happens, and we at Next Chapter Weddings are here to make sure your big day is everything you’ve dreamed of and more. Whether you need full-service planning or just a helping hand on the day, our experienced team is ready to step in and handle all the details. We know that planning a wedding can be both thrilling and overwhelming, so we’re here to take the stress off your shoulders. From selecting the perfect venue to managing every detail of your event, our goal is to make the process smooth and enjoyable. Let’s work together to create a wedding that’s even more spectacular than your engagement celebration. Reach out to Next Chapter Weddings , and let’s start crafting the next beautiful chapter of your love story.

Brandi Swanson | Next Chapter Weddings Senior Planner + Designer Healing and leadership might not seem like they belong in the same sentence. But if I’m being honest, I don’t think I truly became a leader until I began healing. I’ve always been a planner, a builder, a problem-solver. But leadership—the kind that creates safety, inspires trust, and makes room for others to grow—didn’t come from my success. It came from my struggles. Here are a few lessons I’ve learned about leadership, not from conferences or books, but from walking through heartbreak, burnout, and rebuilding my own life from the ground up. 1. You can’t lead others well if you abandon yourself in the process For years, I equated leadership with self-sacrifice. I thought being a strong leader meant showing up no matter what, being everything for everyone, and pushing through even when I was running on empty. But I’ve learned the hard way that constantly abandoning my own needs doesn’t make me a good leader—it makes me an exhausted one. The people I lead don’t need me to be perfect ; they need me to be present. And I can’t do that if I’m disconnected from myself. 2. Leadership is less about control, more about creating safety As a planner, I naturally gravitate toward structure and control. But healing taught me that leadership isn’t about having all the answers. It’s about creating an environment where people feel safe to bring their whole selves. That means making space for vulnerability on my team. It means checking in—not just on timelines and tasks, but on hearts. It means owning my mistakes and inviting others to do the same without fear of shame or rejection. People don’t grow when they’re micromanaged. They grow when they feel safe. 3. Your scars can be your superpower I used to think that if people knew the pain I’d walked through, they wouldn’t respect me as a leader. But the opposite has been true. Sharing pieces of my story (when appropriate) has opened doors to deeper trust and connection. Healing has taught me that my scars are not weaknesses. They are evidence of survival. And they remind others that they can survive, too. Leadership is not about being untouched by hardship. It’s about showing others what’s possible on the other side of it. 4. Leading with empathy will always be worth the risk Empathy makes you vulnerable. It opens your heart to disappointment. It sometimes means getting hurt. But I would rather risk all of that than become someone who leads from a hardened place. Empathy has allowed me to create meaningful relationships with my team, my clients, and my fellow planners. It’s what turns coworkers into family. It’s what turns vendors into trusted collaborators. And it’s what reminds me, daily, that I’m not in this alone. 5. Healing never ends—and neither does learning I’m still in process. I’m still learning how to speak up without apologizing. I’m still learning how to ask for help. I’m still learning how to be the kind of leader I would want to follow. And maybe that’s the point—leadership isn’t a destination. It’s a daily choice to show up honestly, lead with heart, and grow in front of the people you serve. Leadership in the Wedding Industry Needs More Heart Whether you’re leading a team of planners or simply leading yourself through a tough season—know this: your healing matters. It changes the way you show up. It softens you in the best way. And it can make you the kind of leader this industry desperately needs. I’ll never stop learning. I’ll never stop healing. And I’ll never stop fighting for a world where people lead with heart. From Houston, TX (and beyond) I’m here to walk with you in both business and life Whether you’re planning your dream wedding or building a business from the ashes—I see you. Let’s write your next chapter together. 📩   Book a consultation  or follow along on Instagram @next_chapter_weddings  for encouragement and real conversations.

Radiate with confidence on your special day! Your wedding day is one of the most exciting, emotional, and unforgettable moments of your life. But let’s be honest, it can also bring a few nerves along for the ride. Between the final details, the buzzing energy, and all the emotions that come with marrying your person, it’s easy to feel a little overwhelmed. "Don't worry, it's something that happens to most brides" At Next Chapter Weddings, we’ve been lucky to walk alongside so many couples on this once-in-a-lifetime day. And we can tell you this: becoming a stress-free bride  isn’t about controlling every single moment. It’s about preparing your heart, your mindset, and your space so that you can actually feel  present and enjoy every second. If you're looking for ways to stay grounded and calm throughout your day, here are my personal go-to tips that truly make a difference 5 Tips on How to be a Stress-free Bride on your Big Day Don't let stress ruin your wedding day. 1. Ease Into the Day with a Morning Just for You Don’t rush into the chaos. Your wedding morning should feel like a breath of fresh air, not a sprint to the altar. Whether you journal with a cup of coffee, throw on a playlist that makes you smile (mine would definitely have some Beyoncé), or do a quick meditation, make space for something that centers you . Set the tone early, and you’ll carry that calm through the rest of the day. 2. Trust the Team You've Built (Seriously, Let Go!) You’ve done the planning. You’ve made the decisions. Now it’s time to trust your vendors and let them do what they do best. If you’ve hired a planner like the team at Next Chapter Weddings , you’re in amazing hands. Letting go of control might feel scary, but it’s the only way to actually enjoy your day instead of managing it. Your only job? Get married and have the time of your life. 3. Schedule a Few Mini Time-Outs Wedding days can feel like they’re over in the blink of an eye. Build in a few intentional pauses. Maybe sneak away with your partner for five minutes after the ceremony, or find a quiet moment to breathe and just feel  all the joy around you. These little breaks are like emotional espresso shots—quick but powerful. 4. Embrace the Unexpected (Yes, Even the Weird Stuff) Something will  go slightly off-script. A flower might wilt. Your ring bearer might lose his shoe. But here’s the thing: none of that can take away from the magic of the moment you say “I do.” Keep your eyes on the heart of the day—you’re marrying your person. That’s the real win. Focus on what matters the most. 5. Keep Your Inner Circle Close Choose your wedding day crew like you’d choose your apocalypse team. You want people who calm you down, make you laugh, and hand you snacks when your blood sugar crashes. Bridesmaids, family, your planner—they’re your emotional safety net. Lean on them when you need to, and let them lift you up. Final Thoughts: Stay Present and Celebrate Your Way If there’s one final tip I’d give every bride, it’s this: soak it all in. Look around. Feel the love. Breathe in the laughter, the hugs, the clink of glasses. The day goes fast, but your memories of it will last a lifetime, especially if you’re present  enough to make them. And if you're still deep in planning mode and want to make sure your day runs smoothly? Let the pros handle the stress. The incredible team at Next Chapter Weddings  is known for helping every stress-free bride actually feel stress-free. From timelines to tissues, we've got you covered—so you can just enjoy the magic. Now you're a stress-free bride, ready to rock your big day to perfection!