Wedding Planning Checklist: What to Do and When to Do It (Month-by-Month Guide)

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Start Here: Your Wedding Planning Checklist Shouldn’t Stress You Out

If you’ve recently said “yes” and are staring down the road toward “I do,” chances are your head is swimming with ideas, to-dos, and a fair share of nerves. Planning a wedding can feel like organizing the biggest event of your life—and in many ways, it is. But it doesn’t have to feel like a full-time job (even though it sometimes tries to be one).

At Next Chapter Weddings, one of the first things we do with couples is map out a clear timeline. Not to box you in but to help you breathe. Because knowing what needs to happen takes the edge off, and suddenly this huge thing becomes doable, even joyful. So whether you’re in the early “pin-all-the-things” stage or already knee-deep in spreadsheets, here’s a month-by-month wedding planning checklist to keep you steady, sane, and excited for what’s ahead.

12 Months Out: Lay the Foundation

This is where it all begins and where the biggest decisions get made. Your venue, your date, your guest list, and your budget all need to fall into place here. These are the pillars that shape everything else.

If we could give one piece of advice for this stage, it’s this: don’t wait to bring a planner on board. Having someone in your corner early makes the rest of planning so much smoother (and less likely to turn into late-night stress spirals). We help you think through what matters most, where to spend (and save), and how to build a celebration that feels like you.

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10–11 Months Out: Book Your Creative Dream Team

With your date and venue locked, it’s time to secure the core vendors—your photographer, videographer, caterer, and entertainment. They book out fast, so this is prime-time to act.

This phase is also where your vibe starts taking shape. Are we going full garden romance? Clean, modern lines? Multicultural fusion? We love helping couples take all those Pinterest pins and turn them into one stunning, cohesive wedding vision.

8–9 Months Out: Where the Fun Kicks In

Now the design daydreaming can really begin. You’ll be shopping for attire, chatting with your florist, and planning your engagement session (we always recommend these double as Save the Dates or wedding website content).

This is also the part of the wedding planning checklist where we love digging into you. The stories, rituals, or family traditions that matter most. Whether it's a signature drink named after your dog or a surprise choreographed entrance, this is your chance to start adding those one-of-a-kind touches.

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6–7 Months Out: The Organised Girl Era

You’re in your spreadsheet era now—and it’s a powerful place to be. Think finalizing transportation, hair and makeup, and guest accommodations. We also start building out a custom wedding day timeline so nothing gets missed.

Working with a planner during this phase = no 3AM Google searches about where to put your table for the guest book. We’ve got you covered with behind-the-scenes coordination and real-time guidance, so you can keep enjoying the ride.

4–5 Months Out: Paper Goods + Ceremony Planning

It’s time to order those gorgeous invitations and nail down the details for your ceremony. This includes choosing readings, deciding on any cultural or spiritual elements, and writing your vows if you’re going the personal route.

We’ll also begin syncing with your vendor team to align everything behind the scenes—from how the ceremony flows to how the signage looks to where your florals go. Seamless doesn’t happen by chance, it’s built and this is the building phase.

Step-by-step, One-at-a-time

2–3 Months Out: Final Touches and Timeline Talks

Things are getting real now. RSVPs are due soon, your seating chart is starting to take shape, and we’re double-checking the flow of your day from top to tail.

This part of the wedding planning checklist is where a lot of couples start to feel the crunch—so we step in with calm, confidence, and checklists that actually make sense. It’s also a great time to schedule a final walk-through with your planner and venue so everything feels aligned.

The Final Month: Lean In and Let Go

Final fittings, tip envelopes, playlists, and honeymoon prep—it’s all happening. But here’s the deal: you don’t have to do it all yourself.

This last stretch is about trusting the plan, leaning on your team, and actually enjoying the build-up. We’ll have every detail dialed in so you can sip your mimosa, hug your people, and soak it all in. No last-minute chaos. No clipboard panic. Just peace.

Your Wedding Day Should Not Be Stressful

Your Wedding Planning Checklist, Done Right

There’s no gold medal for doing it all alone. This season is meant to be full of meaning not just management. With the right support (hi, that’s us ✋), planning your wedding doesn’t have to feel like a pressure cooker.

At Next Chapter Weddings, we’re here to walk with you through every milestone, decision, and tiny detail—with clarity, heart, and a sense of humour. Because a wedding is more than one day. It’s your love story, designed and delivered with care.

If you’re ready to take planning off your shoulders and start enjoying your engagement again, we’d love to help. Let's talk!

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