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What Should You Do With Your Engagement Ring During the Ceremony?
- Klen Ibale
- Aug 29
- 3 min read
Updated: Sep 2
When it comes to wedding day details, we tend to think big: the dress, the vows, the venue. But sometimes it’s the smallest things—like what to do with your engagement ring during the ceremony—that catch us off guard.
It’s a common question, and if you’ve found yourself suddenly unsure about how to wear your rings on the big day, you’re not alone. The good news? There are a few thoughtful and practical options that brides often choose from, each with its own charm, comfort, and meaning.
Let’s walk through them together so you can choose what feels best for you.
3 Thoughtful Ways to Handle your Engagement Ring on the Big Day
Option 1: Wear It As Usual, Then Adjust After
One of the most common option is also the easiest: wear your engagement ring on your left ring finger as you usually do. During the ceremony, your spouse will place your wedding band on over (above) it. Then, once the ceremony is over, you can switch the order so that your wedding band is on the bottom. This is the most common and most simple option.
Most couples love this option!
Why is this the favorite choice for couples:
It’s simple and elegant. There’s no need to overthink or rearrange anything beforehand.
No extra steps. You don’t have to worry about moving the ring or handing it off to someone else.
It looks beautiful in photos. Your engagement ring will still be part of the moment, and the exchange will feel seamless.
If you’re going for low-stress and traditional, this option is a great fit.
Option 2: Move Your Engagement Ring to Another Finger
You can wear your engagement ring on a different finger during the ceremony and then place it back over your wedding band afterward. Some brides choose to wear it on their right-hand ring finger so their left ring finger is free for the band exchange.
Just keep in mind: this only works if your engagement ring comfortably fits on another finger—so it’s a good idea to try it out ahead of time.
Why this other option works well for many:
Keeps your engagement ring with you. You won’t need to set it aside or hand it off to anyone.
Perfect if you want your band placed first. Some brides prefer the symbolism of having the wedding band closest to the heart.
Easy to switch after the ceremony. Just slide your engagement ring back into place when you’re ready.
Option 3: Keep Your Engagement Ring in a Safe Spot
Not every bride wants to wear her engagement ring during the ceremony—and that’s perfectly okay. Whether it’s for religious reasons, personal comfort, or peace of mind, you can choose to tuck it away until after the vows.
Where to safely keep it:
With your maid or matron of honor. She can keep it on her right hand or safely tucked into her clutch.
In a jewelry box in your bridal suite. A classic option if you want it completely out of sight until after the ceremony.
With a trusted family member or your planner. Hand it off to someone you trust who can keep it secure and close by.
This option is especially helpful if you’re wearing gloves or if the ring might be a distraction during the ceremony itself.
How to Choose What’s Right for You
There’s no rulebook for how to handle your engagement ring during the ceremony. The key is doing what feels natural and meaningful for you. Whether you keep it on, move it temporarily, or store it for safekeeping, the most important thing is that your ceremony reflects your love and your story.
Remember, your wedding band symbolizes the next chapter in your journey, and how you wear your rings is entirely up to you.
Engagement Ring Etiquette: Does It Really Matter?
If you’re wondering whether there’s an “etiquette-approved” answer, the truth is that traditions vary. Some say the wedding band should be worn first, closer to the heart. Others place both rings during the ceremony without thinking twice. In the end, the best approach is the one that brings you peace of mind and fits the flow of your day.
Final Thoughts
Handling your engagement ring on your wedding day should not be something you stress about. Once you have picked an option that works for you: simple, symbolic, or safely stored. You can focus on what really matters: the moment, the vows, and the joy of stepping into your new chapter.
At Next Chapter Weddings, we are here to help you feel prepared and supported through every meaningful detail. Whether you need full-service planning or just a little extra guidance, we’re ready to make your day feel effortless and truly your own.
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